Seems mine is not the first heart broken

Christmas had passed and then New Years and soon enough it was February. And two days before Valentines Day. I'd never been that into the holiday before, never really getting any cards or roses. And this year would be no exception. I didn't know what to do about Bradly. 

Wednesday's baby belly appeared and she was over the moon awaiting the proposal from boyfriend Joel.  

I visited Calista in her new home with Fergal and we had dinner together.  

Then when I got back to my own house, I discovered my grandchildren and Hallie there. 

Lola grew up to be a tomboy.

While Lacie was very girly. 

Lance wasn't able to come unfortunately, and neither was the fourth baby, Bronson. 

Kim and Lola got on well despite the fact that Kim was girly and Lola wasn't. 

In the living room, Lacie and Hallie were playing a game and Caiven watched while Lola, Wednesday and Alfie cheered them on. 

Hadley's children grew up beautifully too.

(I think my game glitched because after I took these photos, I was no longer able to see any of Jayda's grandchildren...)

Eliza 

-Wednesday-

I was getting heavily pregnant and walking up the stairs was almost too much for me. I didn't understand how mama kept doing this! I could not have one hundred of these! I finally made my way upstairs and called for Joel. I was hoping he was home from work by now. I heard a lamp break in the bedroom and wondered what was going on in there. I made my way to the bedroom where I found Joel in the arms of someone else. I left the room as quickly as I could and stood in the hallway, shocked. 

Joel came out, saw me and tried taking my hands. 

"Hey babe. You ok?"

I pulled them away and shook my head, trying to figure out what to say to him. 

"Don't. Don't you DARE hey babe me Joel. I saw you. I... I SAW THAT. What the hell?"

"Woah, baby doll. Calm your shit."

"NO. What the hell Joel. I'm having your baby."

I spoke through gritted teeth, trying not to let mama know anything was wrong. 

"Baby, let me explain...Karla was jus-"

"Oh, so the whore has a name?"

"Don't be like that Ness."

"Don't use pet names with me. You cheated on me, while I was pregnant with your baby. Get out. OUT."

-Jayda-

I could hear everything going on in the next room. I'd dragged the girl Karla from the bedroom and pushed her from my house. Then I'd rounded on Joel. How dare he bring that girl into my house and hurt my baby girl. I couldn't make Wednesday okay that quickly though, she stayed in bed most of the day, only coming out to eat ice cream and to pee. 

"WEDDY. Get your fat pregnant backside out here now."

"Girls... Don't yell at her like that."

"WEDDY. We'll come in there you fat bitch." 

"Why do I have kids?"

"Mama, shut up. She needs to stop wallowing now. Weddy, Joel was a waste of space and a loser." 

The door opened and my three girls hugged. This family is so bizarre.

-Wednesday- 

"Hello?" 

"Oh, it's you. What do you want Joel? Yes, I'm having your baby. No, you are having nowt to do with it. NO JOEL. I don't want you near me or my family. Yes, unfortunately, it is your family too and if when he or she grows up and he or she wants to see their daddy then I'm not gonna stop them. No, that's it Joel. Full Stop. Goodbye."

As soon as I got off the phone, Meg stopped walking towards me. 

"Oh woah. Nessie. Your spilling baby juice. I'll just... urm, I'll go get mama."

And she ran off.

"MAMAAAAA"

Mama finally arrived and started freaking out on me. 

"Oh good, you're no bloody help."

5 minutes later, my baby boy Aiden Moon was born. 

clumsy and easily impressed.

Broken Feather - Baby 21

The day before Christmas was hectic in our house. Kim was carrying Nashira everywhere and wouldn't put the poor cat down. I was trying to get the food together, the tree sorted and the presents put out for the entire family and friends that were coming down.

Bedtime rolled around pretty fast though and the kids eventually went to sleep. I smiled, relaxed and went to bed myself.

The next day was Christmas Day and the kids were all eager beavers and ran to the tree to open their presents. We spent the day with various family members and close friends and everybody had a fantastic time. I was ecstatic that my mama had decided to spend Christmas with us, she was talking about going to see the rest of the family in Bridgeport for New Years but wasn't sure if she should because of all that had happened to her. Her scar was healing up lots and she was booked in for some cosmetic surgery soon to get rid of it completely which she was happy about. I loved seeing her so happy, especially after she'd been ripped from our family so dramatically. 

We all ate together that evening, knowing the kids would all grow up the next day and some would be moving out to start their own lives. 

At around 10pm there was a knock on the door and I opened it wondering who it was. I was greeted by a big kiss from Bradly Turner. 

And seconds after that... he asked me to be his girlfriend. I didn't know whether that was against the rules or not but I really didn't care, I was hopelessly in love with this man and nothing was going to stop me from being with him. He stayed round our house and at midnight, kissed me underneath the mistletoe.

"Merry Christmas beautiful."

We spent the night together, making snowmen outside till the kids woke up. 

Bradly was fine for me to go and get pregnant with my next baby, and even though I wished it could be his baby again, I agreed and went out with someone who had been ringing me for a while. He asked me to meet him and when I pulled up, nothing was there apart from snow. He got to making a snowman and I decided to make an igloo. 

We decided to get started on the baby right there and then and he abandoned his snowman and we woo-hooed in the igloo. 

As I was leaving, I saw him in his underwear carrying on with the snowman. I vowed that I would not see him again as he creeped me out.

The kids grew up beautifully...

Wednesday got the Great Kisser trait.

Pugsley became a dog person and he and Gomez took Tamsie to live with them.

Gomez was a mooch.

Kim grew up to have the good trait but also became very self-centered and reliant on makeup. She was determined to be the most popular girl in school, but had to fight the position from her twin Meg, who was prettier than she was and nicer too. 

Meg got the Flirty trait but didn't abuse it. She was beautiful and so friendly and this upset Kim a little bit. Kim wasn't naturally pretty like her sister and felt the need to be popular. Meg didn't care whether she was popular or not. She highlighted her jet black hair with red and put orange tips on. She had heavy makeup and got called emo by some people (mainly Kim) but it was her style.

Alfie shaved his hair off for charity and had the snob, friendly and excitable trait. 

Over the next few days, my baby bump grew fast. 

Wednesday got herself a boyfriend, Joel Forsythe and the two were now expecting a baby.

One day, I got back home from taking Alfie to parents evening and I noticed immediately something was wrong. I ran as fast as I could to the bedroom and my heart broke in two. Bradly was gone. I got there just as the last puff of smoke disappeared. I didn't know what to do apart from fall to the floor beside his urn and  sob my heart out. 

I was ready to pop and missing Bradly so so much. I was determined to make Ambrosia and resurrect him but I needed all the ingredients first. I was so scared it wouldn't work. I needed the love of my life back. Then one evening as I finished reading Alfie to bed, a voice said my name. Softly at first and then louder. I turned around and couldn't believe my eyes. Bradly was standing, or rather floating on the other side of the room. We stood there for the longest time and just spoke to each other until he went in the morning and I cried myself to sleep.

In the morning, my baby boy Caiven was born.

Welcome to the World

Caiven Moon

- loves the cold

- heavy sleeper

As I stared at the Christmas Tree ready to take it down, I wasn't sure if this was the best or worst Christmas ever. I knew one thing for certain. I was determined to get my Bradly back...

[ Thanks for reading. I am so sorry that it took me so long to get this post out. As you may or may not know, I had trouble with my game and somehow got it working again so there should be more regular posts again now. I'm trying to catch up to where I am now, rather than skip lots like Christmas etc. ]

This could be the end

So, went on to my computer and it turns out my step-dad took my Internet off me. I went to play the game and it comes up with a message saying that Jayda's file has been deleted. The only person who would have done that is my stepdad.

So yeah, that's it. Unless someone lets me know how to get my game back there's no more challenge. I'm so pissed off and upset. That was the one save I didn't want to lose.

I am actually crying because he has done so much to upset me and now this.


So I'm sorry to those who liked her challenge...

I may start a new one but I don't know.

Bye.

An update.

So I have a theory. Everything was working fine until my step-dad fucked around with my computer... It updates halfway and then says "File not found" 

My theory is that my step-dad removed whatever it was that made it update. 

At the moment, my only option is to re-install everything.

If someone could tell me how to back up my game so that Jayda's save isn't lost that'd be great cause otherwise I am going to cry.

Patch 1.47

So, I haven't been posting recently because my step-dad took my computer apart for some stupid reason and I've literally only just got it back. 

All of my stuff had been deleted so I had to get that back which took 4 whole fricken' days. I went to play Sims and get back on track and it asked me to install the update. 

It wouldn't let me install this (I have to use an administrator password and I don't know it) and kept freezing when I clicked ok and then when I cancelled all that and wanted it to install the update again (thinking 2nd time lucky) it said "You can't open the sims3 launcher while an update is being installed". IT WASN'T INSTALLING THE UPDATE. 

So I restarted my computer thinking it would help. It did. My mum typed in the password for me and it did everything until it came to updating the game (not origin - that was done). It suddenly comes up with this box saying something like "invalid file" and that was it. I tried again - same thing. So I thought fuck it (scuse me!) and went to load the game anyway (my nraas is gone btw so no mods) 

It won't load past 'raking the leaves' or whatever it says.

Has anybody else had issues with this patch? 

Does anybody know what I can do?!! 

:( 

I've been without my computer for 3 weeks now and I just want to plaaaayyy

<3

This just needed a post all to itself

So, Jayda. That's not how you hold a baby. 

Nope, still not right, and why are you looking away to the side?!

So I turn around and baby Alfie is floating in the middle of the living room, arms out like Jesus, his face like this. Gave me a shock and a half.

And Jayda won't stop crossing her eyes.

Again, Jayda. Stop sticking your hand up your child's ass to hold him. 

She plonked him in the crib like that too.

Bytheway.

A little bit about moi.

-Name-

Becky 

-Nickname-

Bex

-Age-

18

-Gender-

Female

-Country-

England

-Twitter-

http://twitter.com/beckyellenox

-Instagram-

http://instagram.com/beckyellenxo/

-tumblr-

http://iheartdrakco.tumblr.com/

Feel free to follow me ^^

Those are my PERSONAL social sites. 

Jayda has a facebook.

If you want that, search back a few posts or comment if you can't find it <3 

Deck The Halls - Baby 20

It was hard without Fester in the house, especially since it was nearly Christmas. Not that you could tell from the weather. Brollies were up all over town. I had to get out of the house. Wednesday was in pieces, shut away in her room. She had been since Fester died. They were close. I once again found myself outside the house that Bradly shared with some of the other challenge mums. 

 I knew that I wasn't supposed to have feelings in this challenge, but I couldn't help it. Bradly seemed to be my ... rock. He cheered me up when I was down and I always had a smile on my face around him. 

I knocked on the door, but nobody was home. Defeated, I went for a walk and then back home as soon as I knew the kids were at school. I lay on the sofa, feeling awful. I should be comforting them, not running away from them. 

"Mama..." 

I heard Kim calling for me then. The twins were aging up that afternoon and I ran my hands over the clothes that I had bought them for their childhood. 

Kim was a kleptomaniac, which was odd because she was the sweeter of the two girls. They were basically identical apart from hair colour and their mouths. They were incredibly good at tricking their teachers though, especially in maths as they always seemed to have substitutes. 

As they played, I stayed in the living room and spoke to the bird. My phone rang and I looked at the caller ID.

-Zac calling-

"Yeah right." 

And again. That phone kept ringing. I eventually picked it up and let Bernie speak into it in his parrot voice. 

"What do you want?" 

"Jayda? Is that you?" 

"No, it was a bird. But thanks. Now, answer the question dick."

"Oh erm, well. Kind of awkward now. Do you want to go on a date with me or something?" 

"I would rather swallow human flesh. Especially after how you treated me. Bye." 

And I hung up. 

Well, that was plain weird.

I sat down at the computer and checked out the new online dating site that Wednesday had found on fliers. I wasn't sure why I was on this. I didn't need anybody. But maybe, just maybe I could find challenge fathers on here. Like a book of sperm. 

Gross, Jayda.

I closed that down and left it there. Walking downstairs, I heard shouting.

"MAM. You got mail bitch." 

This is why Wednesday and I got along. We were like best friends. She put the mail on the table, winked at me and skipped out the room. 

I turned to the envelope and frowned. 

"HAVE YOU OPENED MY MAIL?" 

"NOO... ME? I WOULD NEVER..."

I sat down and opened the letter and my heart did somersaults. Please, i'd had children with him. He still made me feel like a hormone crazed schoolgirl. 

I wrote a letter back, smiling as I did so. 

The kids and I went to the fair on down the road and did some apple bobbing, pie eating contests and roller blading. 

After eating my snow cone, I got back on the floor and was spinning around when I crashed into Fergus, Calista's son. 

"Crap. Sorry."

He helped me up and smiled.

Back home, I got pregnant with the next baby and did some painting. I realised that I hadn't really done any since I lived in the old house. 

Pugsley eventually came home, pie all over his face.

In my room, I sat on the bed and looked at all the photos I had so far. It dawned on me that I'd never taken a photo of Fester before he died. I had one photo. The one I'd taken when he aged up. 

Kim and Meg had loved the photobooth, taking so many photos together. We eventually settled on this one going on my wall.

I sat there for ages, thinking about Fester. I wished he was still here. Christmas wasn't going to be the same without him, he always made us laugh. 

Pugsley, Wednesday and Gomez went to their prom. They didn't have the greatest day for it as it was raining, but they still had a wonderful time. Wednesday was prom queen and Pugsley was prom king.

Pugsley also got a girlfriend, his crush - Amy Riches.

Gomez kept hitting on the boys but eventually he found Becka Riches. Wednesday wasn't sure how long that would truly last. 

At home, Kim was sick so she stayed off school while Meg complained about having to go. 

"Go on. You'll have fun."

I smiled, pushing her out the door. 

That night, the kids went to a fancy dress party at their friends house apart from Kim who felt sick still.

Pugsley was a rock star.

Gomez was a pirate.

Meg a burglar.

And Wednesday was a princess.

Looking outside, the weather was absolutely grim. I had thought about taking Tamsie for a walk, but I decided i'd paint instead.

I went on a vacation and came home to find the house relatively trashed. I knew they would have a party. I wasn't really fussed. I had parties when I was a kid, mostly with my sisters. As I spent some time cleaning up, I realised the baby wanted to come now. 

WELCOME TO THE WORLD

Alfie Moon

-excitable

-friendly

(I didn't realise when i was naming him that his name was Alfie Moon!! From Eastenders. That just happened to be the next name on my list!)